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Today’s free psychic tarot reading is for subscriber 1115, initials RH. She asks “Why is he cheating on me?”.

When I focus on the energies at work around your situation, I feel as though this happened a while back and that things haven’t been easy for you as a couple. There aren’t obvious signs of him being unfaithful, so I do have to ask if you have found proof of him cheating or if it’s something you suspect or fear? 

It does look like you have drifted apart a fair bit at one stage. The relationship’s balance was off, and this caused a lot of arguments and upheavals.  It feels as though one or both of you may have said things in anger or made decisions in the moment that either caused a time out, or pushed you to take a break from the relationship for a while. 

I’m shown that he copes or tends to cope by throwing himself into work, so him working more or later seems to have been one of the influences here. He wasn’t around as much, and was interacting more with other people as a result. 

I feel as though he wanted to avoid the conflict or issues, and his way of dealing with it all was to just not be available as much or to be around as much as he would have been otherwise. The quality time you lost during this time also made it harder to maintain emotional intimacy or that sense of closeness.

He seemed to have shut down his emotions to a large degree, almost like he believed that if he just focused on being productive, things would blow over, but it didn’t from what I’m shown.

The key seems to be to work on finding better ways to communicate with one another, about what you need, what your individual expectations are, and how you can meet in the middle somewhere. 

I can see that you care for him deeply, and that if you are able to reconnect on that emotional level, a lot of the things he’s been doing to help himself cope will ease up and you’ll be able to see a lot more of him and spend a lot more time together.